find my dad

So… I went to his house on Wednesday 23/09/09 at around 4pm expecting his sons home from school (I am 95% sure he has 2sons).

6.30… A female shows up! His wife?
She got out the car but looks nothing like I remember! – I bumped into my dad and his wife in town one day, my Gramma pointed them out, that was 6 years ago.
So I decided to call the house phone to enquire – its her alright!
Good lord she’s let herself go! LOL.

No dad, no sons.

I feel really disappointed that I didn’t see him or my brothers.
I’m not interested in his wife in the slightest – no hard feelings just not interested. I really want to see my brothers though!

I believe he (my dad) may work offshore though so god knows when I’ll catch him.

Looks like I’ll just have to keep popping up every now and then until I see him.

I’ll let you all know if I have any advances…. or get arrested for stalking! LOL

Sx

So… I first tried contacting my dad through solicitors when I was 8. He refused contact and returned my letters unopened. I secretly kept hoping that I would get a birthday card one year (16th or 18th)... NOPE! So I’m 21 in November 09.
I’ve been searching the net for the past year. All I know is his name, his wife’s name, roughly where he (maybe)stays, I know he is between 2 and 5 years younger than my mum and I think he has two sons?
So via process of illimination from the thousands (literally!) of names that came up in searches…... I have an address and contact number!
Now all I need to do is bite the bullet and go see if it’s him.

Stakeout planned for Wednesday 23/09/09

Wish me luck!

Oh…. if it is him…. anyone got any ideas of “what next”?

Will let you all know what happens at stakeout

Sx