love unconditionally.

Doesn’t happen too too often, but today someone said something to me that hit home – it was a shot. The normal array of blah feelings started to rise, but then I remembered my 43 things – and to love unconditionally. And what can I say? For the first time, I just let it go, and the rest of the night was a smash – laughs & fun. This is quite a success in my little life – it’s something I’ve been unable to do for years.

Yay for me.

This has got to be one of the top 5 freakin’ scariest things I have ever had to consider doing. If looked at idealistically and in a frank & logical fashion, loving unconditionally is the most healthiest, beneficial and inspiring states of existence to be in. My curiousity alone drives me to accomplish this one thing.

Realistically and objectively, I get a knee-jerk reaction just to the thought – threatening, impending hurt, fear, rejection, and all that common nasty stuff.

I suppose the determining factor that will make this a success or not? Whether I am loving unconditionally because I truly want to, or doing it ‘cause I think I should. And wow, these 2 factors are a gazillion miles apart, and make all the world of difference….

Until next time….....loving conditionally, and gearing towards un.