This is what I am always telling myself not to! In the first place, what’s the need for? Regrets can only make us feel sorrier and unhappy and it can even stop us from moving on. Yes, we couldn’t help from regretting sometimes…that’s an initial reaction from failures. And instead of being so bothered about it, try to be still, fight the negative feelings and in that way you will have a clearer mind to see what next best thing to do to solve whatever is causing the problem. And in the event that you can’t really find a solution, just be calm and have a Plan B… or better to have a Plan C, Plan D and the more the better. Simply it means that there will always be a solution to a problem; we just need to match which Plan is best.
And more importantly, first learn to forgive yourself. That’s the hardest part…why? Because sometimes we simply don’t realize that we are the very reason why we are failing…it’s because of our very own actions. Don’t blame others for our wrong doings or failures…they may be a part of it, but we have to be the one controlling our own lives.
Yes, we sometimes tend to ask help for a solution…but don’t expect too much, that’s the best attitude.