EstherGreenwood in Alaska Zoo is doing 40 things including…

stop hating myself and my sister

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i've been afraid to write about what happened 3 years ago

because i was afraid of who would read it. but right now, i really don’t care at all because it’s the truth and it’s left me so fucked-up that it really doesn’t matter who reads this; it really can’t get much worse.

my sister made-out with my ‘boy friend’ (he was really just someone i invested a lot of emotion and conversation in; i lived 5 hours away from him at the time. i say ‘just’, but i loved him so much, and it still hurts like fuck.) a lot of times unbeknownst to me. my sister and i used to be best friends. she’s known me for nineteen years. this might not mean much, but she’ll probably be valedictorian, so she’s not dumb. she’s a model and socially beautiful. everything happened five months ago, and i’m still not fucking over it. i cried every day for three and a half months and had to quit my job because i couldn’t keep myself together. i see someone about it now, and the medication has helped me to control the crying. it hurts me so badly to know that she thought she could make him THAT much happier, thought she was that much better than me…what makes it harder is that we live in the same house. i really need help. fuck i loved him so much, and she knew it. she’s just the better version of me, and she knew that too.



i will stop holding grudges 3 years ago

i just am not sure how.



i bought her 3 years ago

a really sweet pair of jeans today. she came upstairs with them and said, “these can’t be for you.” that could either mean holy crap these jeans are so sweet or you seriously don’t think you can fit your fat-ass in these, do you? i really don’t care which to be honest. they fit her perfectly and are really cute. buying gifts for people you don’t truly like is strange, not that i’ve ever done it before this. her reaction was pretty shitty. my dad couldn’t stop smiling though.



i really want to stop hating 3 years ago

my sister primarily. i really need help with this. someone told me that in five years, she’ll look back and realize how hurtful she’s been to me. meghan said to give it a year because a lot can change. i cut him out of my life, but i really don’t know how to forgive my sister. there is no excuse for what she has done. it’s just hurtful. i had to watch it happen. i wish i stayed in pittsburgh. i was so unhappy there. i just keep thinking that compared to this, i was happy because i didn’t see how my life could get any worse. fuck was i wrong.



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