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10 years after introducing 43 Things to the world, we have decided we have met our last goal: completing the incredible experience that has been 43 Things. Please join us in giving one last cheer to all the folks who have shared their goals with the world, as well as all the people who have worked at The Robot Co-op to build this incredible website. We won a Webby Award, published a book, and brought happiness to a lot of people.

Starting today, 43 Things users can export their goals and entries from the site. Starting August 15, we will make the site “read only”. 43 Things users will still be able to view the site and export their content, but we won’t be taking any new content from users. We hope to leave the site up for folks to see and download their content until the end of the year. Ending on New Year’s Eve takes us full circle.

It has been a long ride (one of our original goals was to "build a company that lasts at least 2 years” - we beat that one!) While we wish the site could live on, it has suffered from a number of challenges - changes in how people use the site, the advertising industry, and how search engines view the site. We wish the outcome was different – but we’ve always been realistic about when our goals are met and when they aren't.

As of today, you will be able to download your goals and entries. See more about that on the FAQ page. Thanks for 10 great years of goal-setting and achieving.

- The Robots.

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Faraday1791 is doing 8 things including…

Pay attention to what people do, instead of what they say.


 

Faraday1791 has written 1 entry about this goal

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I’m a firm believer in ‘actions speak louder than words’. However, I often find myself over-analyzing every single, minute little detail of conversations – what I said, what she said, what could that mean? : “Are those words good or bad?”; “What was that intonation?”; “WTF was that LOOK? It didn’t fit with what she was saying!”

People lie. What matters is not the words that someone speaks to you, yet the actions that they take for you.

So I would like to stop analyzing every encounter I have with everyone, and start paying more attention to body language, and my instincts as to what someone’s feeling and thinking.

I’ll start with conversations I’ve had in the past three days. I’ll let go of those times when I heard people call me names, because their actions toward me are kind. I’ll let go of that awkward conversation with a friend, because he was extremely kind to me in the following four hours.

Because when it comes right down to it, I can’t put my thoughts into words very well. I’m beginning to think that I’m not alone in this.



 

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