stay in love

It’s so easy for me to fallout of love. This guy is amazing and I’m still in love with him 6 months down the track. He makes me so happy I don’t want to give up on us. Now I just ride out the feelings when I get bored or feel trapped and they pass being replaced again by the intense feelings of love and desire for him. It’s about riding out those moments went I might want to leave, knowing they are only temporary feelings brought on most often by stress and other situational factors and not him.

I don’t think this is a good goal to have. You’re either in love or your not, sure you need reminders every now and again to appreciate the other preson but they’ll come from somewhere. I think it puts pressure on the relationship. I don’t think me n my boy will be together for ever, but i’m so happy with him right now n thats all that matters.

me n my love we broke up. I did it because I thought I needed things I couldn’t get if we were together. Like more freedom, to go out with my friends and not have to tell him everything, I thought I needed someone with the exact same goals n values, and I thought he wasn’t like me. I don’t want to do the normal thing of have kids n get married n all that shit, he does. So we broke up. I was in shock for a week than I realised what I’d done n wanted him back. He ignored me n then 5 agonising days later he told me he didn’t want me. So I partied hard to forget him. But I knew he’d come back, I knew he knew what i knew, that even though we weren’t the same there was something perfect and magical about being together. N he did he came back to me, last night we met up for the first time in 18 days n had a really good talk about what we need. N it was perfect, the things he said were perfect, I love him. He said it’s going to be better this time n I believe him. Maybe we just needed this speed hump to make it even better.

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and we are still in love, we havent had an argument we havent gotten over in 5 minutes and we love each other the same amount. I’m trying to make it last by being totally honest and open about who I am so he knows what he’s in for and trying to maintain my appreciation of him for aslong as possible. We’ve also got a really good basis for communication. I know it ain’t going to be easy but i’m going to put effort in to make it last long term. Wish me luck.