Honor my husband

I talked to him this morning, when he was still on bed.
I tried to speak wisely, checking and rechecking the words I chose to express my ideas.
He listened to me, he said few things, but he listened.
I talked to him about all the blessings in his life:

He was about to die in 1991, when we were married for just 5 months: he had a tumor in his brain, he had a surgery. He survived to it. ¡Praised be the Lord!

After 7 years trying to be parents, because my body had troubles, I got pregnant and now we have 2 beautiful boys. ¡Praised be the Lord!

We were about to split up as a married couple in 1999. The Lord fixed our hearts, and there’s no reason to divorce. This another Lord’s deed.

We are both successful professional people.
We have no debts.

We’re now building our house, it’s hard, but, the Lord has been faithful always, He will be forever.

But my dearly husband is always worried, serious, timeless.

Today I said to HIM: I sure God didn’t save you from death for living this kind of life.

My husband’s mind is always extremely focused on something else (everything dealing with our confort and protection).
He’s usually concerned about anything. When I get closer to him to suggest: “Don’t worry, honey.” He looks at me as if I don’t understant the importance of the troubles.

I wish he enjoys his life, his family much more. The kids are growing so fast, he is missing this.

My husbando is a very, very good man but he doesn’t know how to live.

I’ve talked to him (it’s difficult to find the moment, because he is always busy ).
I listened to him. He seemed to like it.
He is a good man. But he chose to have a so isolated life…
I love him. I know he really loves me.
Thanks, God, for making me understand.

Honoring my husband is God’s will.
It is just.
It is for me and my children’s protection and benefit.
And my husband deserves it… a little ;-)