I feel so grateful, since I have wanted this for a long time. But I wasn’t making it a priority or being very proactive myself about making it happen. (And as it turns out, this isn’t even something he will be participating in! So it’s all about me.)
Also, I usually get more action than he does, even before this. (I think it’s easier for women, at least in the circles we travel in.)
He deserves some sexy adventures too! What can I do to make them happen?