find my perfect match.

I don’t feel crabby or lonely as I was feeling that Valentine Day when I created this goal 2 yrs ago. But I still want the same kind of person I wrote about then.

In fact, I haven’t been too available the last year or so, so I could start spending less time at the office and meeting more new people. I think my perfect match will appear when the time is right.

And now I remember something a friend told me a few months ago… “Now I don’t expect the perfect princess, the one who is right in all the ‘profile requeriments’ I expect. This is not real. I expect a road partner, someone to walk side by side in my life”. (Una compañera de camino, en español). Lo añado a mi lista entonces.

It’s Valentine’s Day and I have never cared about it. But today I am feeling lonely and tired of dating with Mr. Wrong guys.

At least now I am less shy and feel more confident to go out and meet new people. It hasn’t been as difficult as I thought… But the hard thing is to find someone funny AND intelligent AND sensitive -like me ;) ...and also available and interested in me…

Well, if I set it as a goal I should be more possitive, instead of starting complaining. But I feel crabby and sad today. Maybe I should listen to these feelings instead of partying all the time to avoid them. Maybe they can tell me what exactly is missing in my love life…

Ok. Here’s the goal: I want to find my perfect match. Fall for him. And I want him to love me back at the same time. I want to share lots of fun with him and become really good friends. I want passion and laughter and company, and long conversations and lots of hugs and kisses. I want us to be supportive and care about each other. I hope we can be respectful to each other’s lives and spaces (friends, family, jobs), and I hope to be clear enough about my negotiable and non-negotiable ones.

That’s just for the beginning… ;)

Happy Valentine’s Day!