Call my friends more often.

MySpace was supposed to bring people together. And then it went all wonky and became another vehicle for advertising, porn and stalking.

But this week I decided to go back to it and give it another whirl (I tried it last year but thought it was kind of lame). I’ve been on there ONE WEEK and already I’ve gotten in contact with some people I haven’t talked to in years.

And – get this – I’ve TALKED ON THE PHONE to some of them. I even made the phone calls. Whoo hoo!

So, strangely, MySpace is helping me acheive this goal. Hm.

I just NEVER call anyone. And I often don’t answer the phone when people call me.

But I’ve been getting a lot of cheers for this so I’m thinking I better start.

One thing that’s making me feel kind of guilty is thinking about how my friends must feel to never hear from me. Either they think I no longer care about them or they’ve moved on and don’t really care if I call or not.

Which makes me feel really terrible.

Since I put this up as a goal two people I haven’t talked to in weeks called me.

43T is like, reverse-goal-wishing-magic! I just have to list it and it comes true… but instead of working at something to make it happen – IT comes to ME.

That’s kickass.