Epiphany !
8 months ago
I have just had an epiphany! My problem is not that I don’t have a best friend. Taking into consideration my personality traits, I doubt I could ever have one, and not because it’s my fault or something but because I have a strong need for independence. That’s fascinating :D I don’t want a best friend :D I want people around me, but I also need my space.
My whole perspective about a best friend has changed. Indeed, I need people that I can trust, people that would be there for me when I need something. But I already have this and I feel satisfied. In my other, idealistic opinion, a best friend would have been always there, guessed what I want, shared my everything. And I’m too independent to want such a thing.
