When I want to be loved ~ I must focus on what I want & “BE the change I wish to see in the world” (Gandhi) ~ as I focus on what I want and become exactly that ~ my desire is manifest within and around me. We get more of what we ‘vibrate/emit’ ~ IL&G
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I had a beautiful chat with Trini today… I LOVE HER!!!
Many think to be unconditional loving, we must allow everyone into our lives. We can be loving without having a relationship with someone. In fact, it often is more loving to let a person go if you feel that something just doesn’t resonate with another. Let them go in Love. If you find yourself judging another or being judged, then you can let them go in Love. If you feel abused in any way, it is more loving to both of you to let them go.
Unconditional Love means you accept all others, including yourself, wherever they/you are vibrationally, and yet not feel a “should” to engage. Pay attention to how you feel around certain people. You can choose to be in or out of a friendship/relationship based on what your Heart says. If you sense you are not a vibratory match, there is no judgment in letting go.
So remember, that as we evolve more into our Authentic Selves of Being Love, we still choose who we want in our space and who we let go of. We can choose to actively let go or simply allow the relationship/friendship to evolve to what is the highest evolution for all concerned. As always, it is our choice.
Do choose to keep your vibration as high as possible as we evolve more and more into our True Essence: Love.
Ascension Soultice Rising
I’ve been struggling with this goal because although I know and understand about ‘unconditional’ love ~ and I say that I have been ‘trying’ to offer this to my loved ones and ‘others’ ~ I was not feeling the ‘love’ in return and I have been feeling ‘hurt’ by this…
It seems, and maybe it’s me… that the more that I ‘follow’ my path and the more that I ‘own my Truth’ my family has been more ‘distant’ with me and I feel ‘disconnected’ from them… that hurts me because I want to be close with them. I do my best to ‘connect’ to show kindness and ‘love’ them, but honestly, I do not feel anything in return… actually I feel the opposite….
I addressed this issue in my LifeLine Session this week ~ and there was something connected to this stress/upset feelings in the subconscious ~ MB did the lifeline session with me and addressed the root of the issue and I have felt some relief. I was being triggered from a past ‘injury’‘trauma’ from an earlier time when I nor my environment were capable of helping through the challenging time at the moment…
After the session, I was able to not only ‘know’ that I would continue to love those in my life ‘unconditionally’ regardless of how they love me…but I was able to let go of the emotional reactiveness to their response to me…
something ‘shifted’ ~ and I’m glad…
I want to love and be loved…
in REAL LOVE… UNCONDITIONAL LOVE….
from my entire being….
It felt good today to delete people from my FB account that are not my friends and who do not even ‘like’ me ~ I don’t care if it’s not ‘nice’ ~ it is my truth ~ I don’t want negative mean people in my circle…
I said it!
I released you today
I wonder if you can feel it
I finally understand that all the
Inadequacies that I found
Within our relationship
Were really inside of me
I’ve decided to own it
Within that ownership
I’m taking back my power
And realize that
I am the one who
Has to love myself
I am the one who has
Kind to myself
I am the one who
Cannot abandon myself
I must be loyal to myself
And worthy to myself
I’m sorry I expected
You to do those things
It was wrong, but not intentional
I am owning my power today
And someday I believe
I will be able to love you
When I have learned to
to really ‘love’ again
I’m noticing this in myself…
I mean in a romantic relationship…. I’m just not sure I can do it… I feel bad saying this, but I have little trust.
When I think about trying to make a life with someone ~ I feel…
terrified…because I seem to have this belief that ‘it will never work’ .....
just sharing here….
it’s horrifying to me
1) that I have this belief
2) that it may be true
(I know…I’m a therapist…I “should” be more rational…)
I deserve to be loved and cared for ❤
Everyone is ❤
Sometimes those we love do not have the ability to ‘love’ us in the way that we would like or that we ‘need’ ~ it is then that we must have enough love inside for the both of us. Unconditionally.