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luv

I meet hem about 2years ago, the guy a least expected had become like a butterfly the love that grew! day by day w/hes care & love.

I am engaged on 24 May -09, He is already pcking baby name & I am looking to fit into the dress…too fat now…lol….

OOOHH!!! So Happy to be w/hem, I hope the baby cord helps my brother illness (LMA)

luvveeee

Dolly

1. Set an Agenda—Since I can’t control anyone else’s thoughts or actions, I decided once and for all to control my OWN actions and set my own agenda. In this case, I wanted to get married, and I made sure to communicate this to everyone I knew!
2. Be Proactive - I stopped relying on “chance” encounters, and decided to proactively go out there and meet my future wife. I knew I could never make Ms. Right magically appear, but I sure wanted to avoid spending significant time in places she wasn’t likely to be. I made sure I placed myself in those environments that I knew would be the most conducive to meeting the right kind of person. For me, one key environment was my local BIBLE STUDY. Sure enough, I met my wife in a class on - what else?—“relationships!”
3. Make a “Spec’s” List—I made a list of criteria in great detail (and why not? I was beseeching the Master of the Universe!) for exactly for the type of person I was looking for. This was the single best tool I had to avoid wasting valuable time. How can you find something if you don’t know what you’re looking for?
4. Pick the Right Crowd—I decided to avoid any and all individuals who were clearly counterproductive to my newly stated “mission.” (Note: This was painful!)
5. Make a Fresh Start - Since I wanted to start with a perfectly clean slate, I threw away the photos, phone numbers and personal keepsakes of every woman I had ever dated. No more casual phone calls or birthday cards - no more contact whatsoever. Business is business!
6. No Expectations—I realized, once and for all, that I wasn’t going to “change” anyone, nor was anyone likely to “change” for me. I learned the hard way that expecting anyone to significantly change over the course of time is naive and counterproductive.
7. Get a Second Opinion—I picked two close, trusted friends to rely on who knew me inside and out. I made sure they met anyone I seriously considered becoming involved with, and I listened carefully to their impressions.
8. Time Limit—Once I met someone who was in the ballpark, I gave myself an ironclad time limit of six weeks to find out. For me, this was a sufficient amount of time. If I wasn’t sure by then, I knew it wasn’t going to happen.
9. Watch and Learn - “Kindness” is a mandatory quality that must be at the very top of everyone’s pre-qualifying list of specifications. If someone’s awfully nice to you, but awfully mean to his/her brother, mother, business associate or headwaiter, it’s time to cut your losses and move on - quickly.
No Physical Intimacy—This was the toughest one of all, but absolutely necessary. Once we become physically involved, our judgment becomes irreparably clouded and we lose all our objectivity. Obviously there has to be “chemistry,” but we’re looking for a Life Partner here, someone to raise a family with! “Character” comes first and last. Once trust, mutual respect and common goals are established, all that terrific chemistry that was put on hold takes over and love will inevitably follow.

G-D Will Provided a good Husband!

yeapp…single no Boyfriend , no plans , no nothing but I open this instead of dating, boyfriend or other related, logical steps to marriage not because I ignore them…is just too remaindme , for what is dating all about, get to know somebody for marriage purpouse… my ex….well he is an ex 4 a reason….

Please Dear G-D! send us soon our Ideal one!

I need to recharge,I do not need to see this goal on my list for now.

but we kinda still together, he is going for teraphy I am going for a relax! i told hem I need time, still ask me out for a shopping weekend…. not happening… I told hem I really need time off from the relationship,I feel estress & axious with an uncomited groom…....

I ‘m seriously, seriously thinking of not marring hem. I need someone with passion for me, with love! without doubt! I do not deserve doubt!

I deserve to be treated right, I love hem so much so much! I gave myself for granted, never is happening again.

I am going this weekend to relax! movies, party, girlfriends, shopping! – no groom issues! just pamper !

I told hem I need time off from the relationship…. I took th eengagement ring off….

the wedding is off ofr now. but he still invited to my b- day party.

now with the ring on had he says I can take it as a “gift” & do not want to go with me anymore to therapy. now i already told my mom & family he propose & now I do not even know what to do.

he doesn’t call or writte as often, I am trying to give hem some ti me to relax, not bother hem, but I feel abandoned with a ring….

I wish now I just move on & did not had to go by all this is even worse than uncomitted men, is an uncommited groom….

I do not even know what to do.

now we are in couple therapy the doctor appt. is on sat…

by now I am in shoe shopping therapy.