Getting divorced after 15years of a marriage that wasn’t going anywhere has helped tremendously.
It’s funny how people say things like they want to get back to “how they used to be”, to get back to their “good old selfs” etc, I think divorce (in a non-good marriage) can be such a good thing (neither my ex-wife nor I are bitter / we still communicate everyday without arguments this time) because it allows you to get back in touch with yourself as you were, unspoilt as it were.
In a nutshell – just be true to yourself and you will be very comfortable in your own skin.
I’m at least 90% there – I have no one to please except myself (see my other achieved goal “to stop worrying what others think”)
