I began looking for a relationship outside of my marriage at my husband’s suggestion.
Long story short- after two years of deep, meaningful relationships that ended because others wanted me and me alone, my husband began cheating on me.
This was a deeply layered, highly emotionally volatile situation.
It ended in me being choked and beaten up, moving into a women’s shelter with my daughter and (so far) nine months of seemingly endless divorce proceedings.
My advice- do it while you’re young- before you have children. experience what love is before you have committed yourself wholly to someone else.
It can be liberating and fulfilling knowing more than one person on sucj an intimate level. I feel like I’m all screwed upside inside now, unfortunately.