Let’s pretend my mom’s maiden name was Smith.
Let’s also pretend that her married name was Jones.
She was divorced for about 24 years when she passed, however, she never went back to her maiden name and kept Jones because of her child (me).
My asshole grandfather (her father), who didn’t communicate w/ me at all during the funeral planning even though I asked him to on more than one occasion, got a headstone that reads
Nancee Sue Jone Smith
Notice that her name that she kept by choice is in the wrong place and spelled incorrectly.
It makes me so angry that I can barely stand to visit the grave. Plus, it isn’t raised and raised ones are only a few hundred dollars more.
