That’s what I usually say when I’m asked to go somewhere or do something or just help out with something. And then It’ll usually turn into a no, sorry in the end.
So, that is changing now. Starting to conciously say yes whenever the kids ask me to play with them or go somewhere when I’m invited. It’s actually fun! The kids like it and we’re playing more together now than we have before. I still want to keep doing that for a while longer – and make it a habit. ;)