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St. James’ Universal Letter 1:19-27

MY BELOVED BRETHREN, let every man be quick to hear, slow to speak,
slow to
  anger, for the anger of man does not work the righteousness of God.
Therefore
  put away all filthiness and rank growth of wickedness and receive
with meekness
  the implanted word, which is able to save your souls. But be doers
of the word,
  and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if any one is a
hearer of the
  word and not a doer, he is like a man who observes his natural face
in a
  mirror; for he observes himself and goes away and at once forgets
what he was
  like. But he who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and
  perseveres, being no hearer that forgets but a doer that acts, he
shall be
  blessed in his doing. If any one thinks he is religious, and does
not bridle
  his tongue but deceives his heart, this man's religion is vain.
Religion that
  is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit
orphans and
  widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the
world.