stop gossiping

...but AUGH!
My boss (soon to be former) is out on sick leave. And she is coordinating everything, everything, everything – from what she wants people to do, to administrative burps and issues through a collague of mine who is not a lead, nor has authority over me.

So he just emailed me “reminding” me of a report that I need to send to my boss before I leave. I shared that it had already sent it and he told me that I had to create the implementation plan before leaving (I called the crazy man and told him that it didn’t make sense for me to create my own implementation plan that no one had botten into – it makse sense to have a meeting to address these things).

And I am going to write to my boss directly to address the confusion. You would think that a social worker (my coworker) would recognize and understand the term TRIANGULATION! hello!!

I think the peace with this job is being made. GOD, help me!

I think I can do this.

Now I will have to decide how to stay out of gossip if people start telling it.

I’ve realized that by gossiping I have put myself at odds with one too many people in our office.
I’ve also been overly negative. I think that if I have been overly negative about the lack of support and a positive structure for growth. ...I wonder if people will think about this more recent negative me from here on our.. or will they think of the non-negative, non-gossiping person that I thought I was (and that I swear I was less than a year ago).