master the law of attraction

as long as you dream and want correctly.
there were so many big and little things happening my way recently, i just am amazed how law of attractiong makes your life the way you want it.
but the more you get into it, the more you think of what you’re thinking. it can be tough at times tyo not let yourself flow in the river of negativity. but it is worth the hassle, definately!

this is my wants and progress during the week.
i want:
this relationship to work and only grow stronger – he has been so loving lately, i am more than happy.
him to become more cheerful – one day he was a little stressed out but otherwise he is becomming much more relaxed.
have a great holiday with him – we are going the beach, dublin for u2 show, and country side afterwards. probably will be very good.
all my beloved ones to be happy and well – mum did relax well on the canoe trip.
to be a busy bee at work and earn more – my work mate is back from hols and i have nothing to do again. he said he’ll give me some new work.
to have a nice car – no progress yet.
to have a cosy home, filled with love and warmth – the feeling when we got home after the trip proves the best that this is home sweet home :)
make friends with his kids – no progress there.
i want his kids to blend in with my friends – no progress yet
i want his kids to participate in our lives because i know everyone will only be happier then – no progress yet
i want us to move into a bigger place, a nice and cosy place, with a backyard for the dogs to play and for us to chill out in – no progress.

i am living a dream, all is just perfect, just like i wanted and dreamed of. but i have been seeing bad dreams. nearly every night last week. i told my friends of them and they reckon those dreams are all about my inner worries on his past life. i hope them dreams were bad because we had a 2nd flight of people getting fired on Fri. i somehow can relate to it. but there is still something i just can’t put my finger on it.
i want to feel more secure i suppose. and the way he behaves i should feel so. maybe it’s just my mind playing tricks with me and giving me exams of positivity :)

this is my wants and progress during the week.
i want:
this relationship to work and only grow stronger – he already moved in while i was away. but the most important thing was we came to the point where we told each other we are in love. i was back yesterday and he said he wants us to go holidays together from now on.
him to become more cheerful – well this needs a little more time i think but he does smile a little more than he used to.
my couz’s baby girl to grow strong and healthy – i think they are going on well and this can go off the list, just be on my mind from now on.
have a great holiday somewhere warm and beautiful – i am back from it! and it was absolutely great!
all my beloved ones to be happy and well – hmmmm. need to send them more good thoughts… just like i did last week.
to be a busy bee at work and earn more – this seems to be working really well – i have so much to do as my work mate is on hols and i took over his work.
to have a nice car – no progress yet.
to have a cosy home, filled with love and warmth – his stuff has filled the place and not everything has already found it’s place. looks a little crowded now but i hope finally we will have a spacious apartment again :)
make friends with his kids – i offered him to look after his younger one if he wants to go to madonna show. but he said he is not going.
i want his kids to blend in with my friends – no progress yet
i want his kids to participate in our lives because i know everyone will only be happier then – no progress yet
new wish:
i want us to move into a bigger place, a nice and cosy place, with a backyard for the dogs to play and for us to chill out in.

this is my wants and progress during the week.

i want:
this relationship to work and only grow stronger – he is in the progress of moving in with me. he is letting his apt go and bringing stuff over. me going on hols alone next week kind of scares me. it’s been 4 months of us being together all the time now. think i’ll be missing him big time.

him to become more cheerful – we do fool around a little more and he has been noticing being a little moody in photos. and we did have fun time.

my couz to give birth to her 1st child and all go well – this went great. my wish now is for the baby girl to grow strong and healthy

have a great holiday somewhere warm and beautiful – i am leaving for Slovakia on Sunday! law of attraction does work!

all my beloved ones to be happy and well – hmmmm. need to send them more good thoughts…

to be a busy bee at work and earn more – no progress yet

to be healthy and energetic – i am okay.

to have a nice car – no progress yet.

to have a cosy home, filled with love and warmth – i try my best to make it a cosy place. it is quite a challenge to fit his stuff in and still manage to keep the place pretty much spacious.

• i want to make friends with his kids
• i want his kids to blend in with my friends
• i want his kids to participate in our lives because i know everyone will only be happier then

i want:
*this relationship to work and only grow stronger
*him to become more cheerful
*my couz to give birth to her 1st child and all go well
*have a great holiday somewhere warm and beautiful
*all my beloved ones to be happy and well
*to be a busy bee at work and earn more
*to be healthy and energetic
*to have a nice car
*to have a cosy home, filled with love and warmth

you see there was a tragic thing happen a year and a half ago. a friend of mine was killed by a horrible person. and i was living with the thought, will he ever be punished for it.
this happened in states and i had no information about how the law case was going on. but i always wanted to know.
and last night we had guests and then they left. so we went to the bedroom, made the bed and were you know getting ready to get into it when mum turned the tely on. the news were on and the moment she turned on the tely. and the report on the case was on the next second! it was as if my mum knew exactly when to turn the tely on!
so i know he was punished, my wish did come true. i hope she can rest in peace now :(

last week i was to go and look into new glasses. i was really thinking a lot whether i should do that or not. i was a bit worried about my finances as it is not such a necessary expense and rather a big one. but i decided i want what i want and guess what? some extra money came into my wallet just a day earlier! out of the blue :)

wish someone fixed my car for me! LOL!

so we had the 2nd class last night. some colleagues reackon it’s crap but i find it effects me big time. makes me want to improve my personality.

26. know your place: every1 has a special place in this world, a unique role. it is called our mission. when you realize your mission, everything comes to balance. it’s very bad to not love your job. what you can go to fing your place:
a. ask people to tell you what they think is best for you,
b. take a proffesional compatibility test,
c. do vertical (change the subject) /horizontal (move up the positions) carrer moves. the ebergy of everything around you (home, work, friends) effects you so if you feel there’s something wrong, you need to move on, change things or even everything.
d. overcome arogance. we all live in one universe. arogant person lives in a broken reality, he only finds his mission when he startes behaving adequate.
e. other methods.

27. happiness. we need to understand what happiness is. you need to know yourself deep inside, to learn control your feelings and thoughts, to understand yourself deep inside.

28. save and secure everything that is valuable in life. things, people, feelings, everything that has value has to be secured and cared about. think of worst posible outcome and ways to control things if it happens.

29. the subtle trap of arogance. it’s the biggest mistake possible. it’s best to think: i am not better. i am simply lucky. and it’s not my merit.

30. be loved. it’s a natural wish of every person. the most effective way to become loved is to take care of others and love others. if you give warmth to others, you attract warmth to you.

31. seek for the biggest pleasure in life. a person becomes full when he knows what trancendence is. it means understanding that there is a grand suprise in the nature. the world is a non-stop changing place. no one can be happy untill he stops being afraid of death. it is the thing a human being is scared of at the most.

32. love all humankind. look at every person as if you see him/her for the 1st time ever, as if you are a UFO. you will notice that people have all sensors in the front. when you learn to love all mankind, the degree of your happiness multiplies many millions of times (i cannot understand this 1).

33. fullfill your promises. to every detail. in a while you’ll realize it’s better to never promise:) your attepts to fullfill the promise you made opens up new energy you didn’t know of. try to avoid deadlines. the person who plans to do something on some special day and time takes himself for a god. he has no clue what can happen tomorow.

34. use your inner guide. it’s somewhere in your subconsciousness you know everything, all answers. you need to bring it out and use it. it is intuition. to learn to hear your inner guide you need to not have any negative thoughts.

35. fall in love with criticism. people take critics as a personal attack. it is better to take the person who criticizes you as a couch, listen to what he has to sayand ask him to explain in more details, seek for constructive criticism, not be afraid of it. it is easier to see from aside. we just need to learn to deal with it. we need to learn to critisize constructively:
a. critisizm has to have an objective goal. you need to stitch some gap inside a person you critisize, not attack that person. you need to make that person of a better quality.
b. you need to give the person an objective formula how to stitch the gap. if you do not know the formula, better not critisize.
c. if you want to stitch, you need to have stitched that very same thing in you.
d. when you critisize, you need to tell the person how it is done correctly. it has to be something that applies to you and to the other person. not some stupid caprice.
e. when you are criotisizing someone, you first need to tell him how precious, important, wonderfull, perfect he/she is (90% of the words you say have to be good). 10% of the words can be criticism.

36. overcome social pressure. don’t waste time trying to prove you are something. the only bad thing is to obey to other people’s will, the only good is to obey to your own will. if you have your mission and implement it, you become independent. it is bad to not know your goal, to do random things. it is only good to do random things in order to find your goal.

37. don’t be boring. don’t take things for granted. look for a new aproach. waken up mysteries and suprises, look for wonderfull new things. don’t let yourself be bored for a minute.

38. responsible decisions. we make decisions every day, every moment. they sum up to the quality of our life. if you are not happy with it, means you don’t make the right decisions.

39. carry other people’s crosses. a heart wounded is much worse than a hand wounded. learn to feel other people’s feelings and pains as if they were your own. taking care of others increases your consciousness, ability to be organized, the quality of thinking. the attempt to feel other people’s troubles adds huge quality to your life. the goal comes up.

40. make others noticed. give your merits to others. we all live in 1 boat. it is easy to help others when they are in physical danger. but it is hard to help those who have phychological problems that are much more important. if some1 has troubles, go to that person, tell him you can help. if he rejects you, don’t give up, try 10 times in 10 different ways. have 5 different solutions in mind to tell that person when he finally opens up and tells you about his problems. make scenarios, offer them to him. feel responsible for his success. when you learn to trully take care of others, your own problems start to shrink.
a. all people are egoists 33-50% of their life. after that a new step comes: altruizm. creativity, love. it needs to be learned. all people have 1 problem: they are selfish. this needs to be turned inside out. find at least 1 person and learn to take care of him as you would take care of you. your thinking will change and the need to take care of more people will come up.
b. we chose the person to take care of by some features – face control mechanizm. the quality of the person’s words, the way he sees things, and the face. avoid negative people.

41. go back to reality. we are tempted by sights. minimize your virtual life, look at the real world, real people. people get trapped into sights.

i realized i am such a fool! all the time i was thinking that my life is going to be absolutely great when i meet my other half that i actually forgot to enjoy what i have at the moment.
so here i am, young, good-looking, inteligent, healthy and keep forgetting about loving myself. no more of that! now i have realised that i will put a lot of strengh into enjoyment of every day. because my life is great:)