Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.

I have found myself back-sliding from this goal yet again. Today, I caught myself trying to please someone I don’t like at all, not even on Mondays!

Needless to say, I have severed that relationship with a single click of the mouse (online relationships are EASY!) and am going to find a whole bunch of wholesome chatting pals!

Relationships are a choice! The moment I realised that, it became easier to recognise seriously toxic relationships for what they are – POISONOUS...

And yes, I am a trusting person. I refuse not to be. Once in a while, though, one should draw one’s armor against the arrows: never attacking, but protecting one’s most vulnerable self…

The decision has been made. The action will be taken.

The moment I exchanged what I thought was a very important goal for this one, things started happening relationshipwise! It’s as if my new attitude changed my aura as well.

I guess (PLEASE correct me if I’m wrong, here!) that once I decided not to be a needy person, but a greedy one (in the sense that I know what I want) where relationships are concerned, I “smelled” differently and people started to treat me better as a result.

Nice. I like this. Going to carry on…

And this goal goes perfectly with my others…