start a family with the one I love

I have been dating a long time friend for almost a year now. He lives in TN and I’m here in MI. We visit each other every chance we get. We love each other so much and want to start a family together. The plan is for me to move down there as soon as I can. I have a 18 month old son and I am a part time secretary and a full time college student. We are trying to figure out ways to make this move happen sooner but can’t really think of anything. The most important thing keeping me from moving is that fact that I have no drivers license. And the other big thing is my mom. She doesn’t want me to move away bc she will miss her grandson to much. But what she doesn’t realize is that this is what I want and this is what will make me happy. I want to start a family with the one I love.