Bitterness holds you back
11 months ago
“Sometimes when things don’t work, there’s somebody you need to forgive,” she says. “Any bitterness that we have in us can just stop the whole process. So we need to look around and say, ‘All right, who do I need to forgive?’ There’s always somebody.”
Forgiveness, however, does not mean you need to befriend the person who hurt you. “You don’t even have to condone their behavior,” Louise says. “It’s just that you let the whole thing go; you separate yourself from the experience.”
