do more things for myself

For a long time now, I have felt like I have neglected “me”. I cook and clean for my family, drive everyone around, take my daughters to playdates, take care of my MIL, etc. I had to ask myself when the last time I bought something for myself was, other than food, and I could not remember. I own one pair of jeans that fit me, and yet I never venture out to look for a new pair. My shoes are falling apart. My hair has not been cut in about 2 years. I need to stop shopping for the girls and buy something for me.