get a divorce

I have tried to keep this relationship together. But for some reason I don’t want to do it anymore. In July will be 9 years. I think that my husband and I want different things in life and neither one of us are willing to compromise. I am going to give it 2 months. Pay off more debt and then drop the “D” bomb.

That you want a divorce? My husband and I have been together for eight years (married 3). He is not abusive, so i can hold out as long as i need too. Right now I am waiting for our financial situation to get better. Everything is in my name.. So I will be the one to get screwed! I am paying down the CC’s as fast as possible.

He is not a bad guy, it’s just that I realize now that we are on different paths in life. I want someone who has the same goals as i do. I think I am going to tell him in a month.