Mafaldita in Belgium is doing 19 things including…

Be kind, but stop playing nice

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Mafaldita has written 1 entry about this goal

I want to practice kindness but at the same time be less 'nice'

I really want people to like me. But I want to be real.
Chai’s entry was inspiring. “I can feel it in my body when I express or receive kindness. I feel ‘in the flow’ and connected to something real. Likewise, I can feel it in my body (at the times I choose to notice) when I am playing nice or receiving someones nicety.”
I totally agree with these feelings, there is a huge difference in being kindhearted, and in playing nice. The latter doesn t feel so good, doesn’t give energy…
I often go over my limit to be pervceived as nice. I want to stop faking it and only be kindhearted when I mean it…
Example: when I am not sure I want to do something for someone, I want to be able to express my doubts in stead of automatically saying sure no prob’ while clenching my teeth because I did not think it over.



Mafaldita has gotten 46 cheers on this goal.

 

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