..the beatles were being sarcastic when they said it was a warm gun.
For me being happy on my own is an important goal. But i sometimes feel conflicted about it. Why are we told that we are supposed to be happy alone? No one wants to be alone all the time. Why should i feel that my loneliness is illegitimate, if I really am alone.
At the same time I have fun hanging out with myself just like I have fun hanging out with friends. I like doing things like reading and taking walks or writing or listening to music. Even dancing is great alone because i get to focus on the feeling of moving my body without having to try to look hot, or even thinking about how it looks, (especially dancing without any mirrors around.)
Still as much as I enjoy my own company, I need people in my life. And I don’t think any one should feel bad about that.
Maybe we should just avoid having all our happiness depend on a single person, because that, it seems, is a recipe for unhappiness.
