50. Dracula, Bram Stoker
51. Fragile Things, Neil Gaiman
52. Round Ireland with a Fridge, Tony Hawks
53. First Six Weeks: Baby Tips (Little Terror series), Charlotte Preston and Trevor Dunton
A nice, quick read (perfect for the fact that new parents don’t have time to read), only a few questionable pieces of advice, which may actually be a factor of the published date of the book [it’s nearly 10 years old].
The points I found lacking: when listing the “cons” of formula feeding, they missed the ones about future weight gain and risk of developing diabetes; I also don’t understand what they mean by stating that babies don’t cry at will for the first 3 months—that just doesn’t sound right, or at least not how I’d describe what’s going on with the crying. The author also suggests highly diluted orange juice to treat constipation, whereas my sources say that citrus juices should not be introduced so early. They also talk about the safe use of covers (in the interest of preventing SIDS), whereas now, someone’s come up with sleepsacs, which are much safer, and quite easy to find.
I do like how the author reminds the parents to keep communication lines open, and that she’s honest about the energy level that’s to be expected.
54. Age of Innocence, Edith Wharton
55. Puss ‘n’ Cahoots, Rita Mae Brown
56. Best Advice on Life After the Baby Arrives, iVillage
I’ve been a member of iVillage from about a year after its inception (in ‘95). I’ve pretty much always found its content useful, and it’s one of my primary internet resources when I’m looking for the latest findings regarding health. I did not, however, rely on it as much for new parenting help; now that I’ve read this book, I wish I had checked into that section more often. The book includes a wide breadth of topics, but doesn’t go very deep with them. This is actually a plus for the new parents who can’t make the time to read. Also, the physically small format makes it a good candidate for reading while captive during feeding time ;)
57. The Black Dahlia, James Ellroy
I’m not sure how I feel about my chosen reading sequence. I was originally going to read my non-fiction titles on Elizabeth Short, but when I came across the Book-to-Movie Challenge, I decided to bump this one up the pile. Besides, I felt like I’d kept it on my shelf long enough; I really need to get more of my BookCrossing trades moving on.
Anyway, I have no idea how much of this book is based on the facts of the case, and I’m not certain that it matters. As a stand-alone murder mystery, the plot works just fine; twists galore and loose ends wrapped up nicely. I will say that I thought that the first 60 or so pages, while well-written, didn’t seem relevant to the story. This was frustrating while I was slogging through Ellroy’s character development, but now that I’ve finished, I can see that he needed that space to also set up a few important plot points.
Ellroy’s novel read with a very Spillane-like cadence, but the fast-paced plot served to make this distraction fade away. His character were well-drawn, and easy enough to track [I personally have a problem doing this—an effect of MommyBrain, I’m certain].
58. The Fourth Trimester, Amy Einhurn
Over all, this book had some pretty good advice. I did have a few major quibbles, mostly with tips related to medical advice:
The author poo-poohs Kegels; she really shouldn’t have. She could have given better advice about breast pain (there are solutions, and red flags). I’d suggest Depends over sanitary pads, especially for the first few weeks, and especially if bed-resting after a C-section. Get the stool softener, and don’t wait for them to ask if you’ve BM-ed. Formula-fed babies are not necessarily “fine” (I’m referring to weight and diabetes problems later in life). Use wet baby washcloths for all non-poop diapers. If circumcising, one really needs to do all they can to make the baby comfortable and not believe the doctor if they say the baby doesn’t really feel anything.
Currently reading:
Endangered Species, Nevada Barr
Cider House Rules, John Irving