What is step number one?
Step number one, to stop being fake:
Stop caring about what people think.
Good ways to do this?
-Remember that, for all the thinking I do about it, I really have NO IDEA what other people think.
-Remember that everybody is just as fucked up and as anxious as I am, even if I am not savvy to it.
-Remember that I do not need to measure my self-worth up against someone else. My self-worth is apparent. I am good at stuff, I am talented, I am brave, I exist as well as everybody else, in one way or another.
—Never judge my inside by someone else’s outside.
-Just let go. I’ve spent 19 years worrying about things I know nothing about/cannot control/should not occupy myself with. 19 years was too long. Now is the time for a change.
