you do not know what i mean by this so I will tell you.I want to be carefull by protecting my feelings and others. My boyfriend and I hope to get married one day far far away but anything can happen between then. He could die, we could break up, anything could happen to either one of us. So for both of our sakes I beleive we should be careful in our relationship from now on. Even though we promise each other we will get married one day does not mean we can have sex before marriage.I would feel so sick if I married a man who had a past relationship with another woman and had sex with her. I dont want to ruen that for my boyfriend. and I know many men would feel the same way if a woman had sex in another relationship. I know this sounds weird and stupid but it isnt. By being carefull will ensure a healthy relationship. I would never hope that my boyfriend and I will breakup. BUT many things could happen thats why you need to be careful. That is why WE want to be careful.
