In my mind love and authenticity go hand-in-hand. If you know who you are, what you value, what experiences you wish to have and if you have been able to accept YOURSELF, then you will be able to continually improve the quality of your relationships and have a better chance at attracting the love of your life.
I cannot stress how helpful this has been for me. Moving toward authenticity has provided me with a greater understanding of the aspects of myself that I have ignored or allowed to remain undeveloped. I have also come to accept these traits. Acceptance has led to my actually being able to work on uncovering my natural inherent abilities in these areas. Its a wonderful experience. By doing this I also seem to be developing more healthy relationships that I ever have before.
I am now much more stable in the sense of being able to weather the ups and downs of life. By striving to be more authentic, I feel myself becoming more confident and balanced. I have an inherent stability that is more present in my life. When tough things do happen, I find I am able to move through the difficulties more easily. This does not mean that I do not feel pain when there are painful situations. On the contrary, I actually feel the pain more deeply. But by allowing it to be there and actually not running away from it, I also move through it more easily and more effectively.
If you’re interested in learning more about authenticity, or reading some articles to help you develop your own authentic self try this page:
Authenticity Through the Mirror of Relationships – An Article
I fully recommend the path of authenticity as a way to improve your relationships with others and with yourself so that you can attract the love that is right for you!
Good Luck!
