Make the right decisions in raising my daughter, even when they are difficult

Oh. This should also mean that I love myself and take good care of myself and work this list to be a better person so that I can be a good role-model. I need to quit putting myself last. I can do and say all the right things with her, but won’t be completely effective if I can’t live it myself.

I want to make her happy without spoiling her.
I want to be disciplined with her without being too strict.
I want to make some events “special” rather than make a big deal out of all of them (People go so overboard these days).
I want to allow her “treats” in moderation (e.g., snacks, tv, gifts).
I want to teach her good manners so that she gets along well with others.
I want to let her be herself.
I want to always treat her with respect and understanding.
I want to be kind to her even when I’m not feeling my best.
I want to appreciate all of her stages, rather than rush her to the next one.
I want her to know her divine nature.
I want her to always know that I love her.