Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.

I can’t believe I’ve actually done this. I guess once you’re backed into a corner you can pretty much achieve anything.

I’m finding the courage to move on from the people that I no longer choose to have friendships with, but tommorrow is the big test as I will be faced with each and every one of them. I just need to find the stregnth and patience to deal with it in a mature way and remember that those who once were a part of my life are no longer important enough to conern me.

It turns out this one can be done, I just needed to get the ball rolling and now its in full motion. I know that I have the courage to move on without these people as they are neither important to my life nor are they my true friends.

with college over and university round the corner I have to perfect opportunity to let go of those I no longer need, only problem is I’m not sure that I can envision my life without them because despite all they’ve been there for so long and the good memories out-weigh the bad, and the friendship is better than nothing. I dont want to be strangers, but I cant keep this up… looks like I have alot of thinking to do.

I havent looked at this goal in a while, partially because im ashamed at my lack of progress with it, partially because if i avoid it i wont have to re-assess my life.
I know what i have to do and who i have to get rid of, but it really isnt that easy when they’ve been a part of you life for so long and if i’m truthfuly honest i’m not 100% ready to let go unless i would have by now.
I shouldnt let myself be manipulated, or made to feel guilty when i’ve done nothing wrong, but i do! I shouldnt care for what you think but i do…this is so stupid!
I have to find the courage to let go, for my sanity at least!

.. and i dont need you in my life, and i will move forward without you, starting…now!

i really have to take responsibility for wots been going on. I’d like to think that he’s to blame for treating me like this but i’m to blame for allowing him to. I guess its partly because i still love him, and despite everything want him back (although i know, in reality, i’d never take him back) but even then I allow him to screw me up mentally;get me angry, make me sad, affect me like he used to… i should be over this, i have to find the courage to move on without him.

i have recently discovered something very interesting about a former friend and i now feel as though i have the courage to move away from said friend and all their negativaty and head towards a brighter future

where has this goal been all my life, its so true i have so many negative people surrounding me in my life, and i could do so much better without them. i guess ive just been so used to them being there i havent noticed the effect they have on me, but now im getting rid of those i dont need, and starting again!