Sue is very happy! in Gloucester is doing 38 things including…

Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.

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Sue is very happy! has written 3 entries about this goal

Moving on  — 2 months ago

I’ve sorted out who I want in my life now and who is important. I don’t feel under pressure anymore to be the person people want me to be. If people can’t handle the more confident and assertive person I’ve become, then that’s their problem. For far too many years, I’ve said and done what I think people want me to say and do. I’ve put certain people on pedestals and then been disappointed and hurt when I’ve felt they’ve let me down. I realise now that they didn’t deserve to put on a pedestal in the first place and I’ve spent years worrying about pleasing them. At the same time, I’m sure I’m not the person they thought I was and are equally disappointed in me.

I can live with that! What’s the point of having someone in your life that you don’t actually like?

May 18, 03:42AM PDT 2 cheers | 0 comments

So true  — 4 months ago

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about the one’s who don’t. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

Mar 05, 01:08PM PST 4 cheers | 1 comment

True Friends  — 8 months ago

Over the last 6 years or so I have discovered who are my true friends are and they are few and far between. I have many acquaintances and work colleagues but very few that I could call real friends. With regards to acquaintances and colleagues, I enjoy their friendship and company but am not worried if they aren’t there if I need them. I don’t want them getting caught up in my problems and I don’t want to get caught up in theirs.

I’ve also learnt that you can’t count on family either, which is fine now I know that. I can accept that fact and move on after all, you can choose your friends but you can’t choose your family!

Nov 15, 03:16PM PST 2 cheers | 0 comments

Sue is very happy! has gotten 91 cheers on this goal.

 

I want to:

The world wants to...

learn Korean learn to use a sewing machine exercise more learn to play the mandolin not take things so personally Katherine wants to identify 100 things that make me happy. change my top 8 to top 16 live in a cabin graduate from college make music take guitar lessons make something beautiful Travel to Alaska meet panic! at the disco Taylor wants to Remember to take my vitamins Read all of Shakespeare's plays go on a three day juice fast learn to speak another language fluently not eat out for 1 month go to cancun figure out what to do with my life make a film dance like nobody's watching ride a horse on the beach be a better daughter improve the world buy a vacation home