post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :)

My boyfriend said something to me last night, that every time he stays at mine he sleeps on the side furthest from the door (can’t explain if it’s left or right, if you were stood at bottom of bed facing the bed, his ‘side’ would be the right). Then he moved onto the other side to try that, and I thought ‘I’m not used to this side at all’ and I realized, I’m always on the side nearest the door, I can’t remember ever being on the other side, unless I was nearer the middle when I sleep alone, maybe. Then I thought, it always seems that when 2 people share a bed, one of them has one side they always sleep on and the other on the other side. Why is this? How are the sides decided? What is “your” side of the bed? I never thought about it before, but that just does and always has seemed to be MY side, and same when I sleep at his, where HE sleeps nearest the door and I sleep near the wall – in my room there isn’t a wall right next to the bed, but yeah

What is your biggest pleasure in the world?

Why is sexuality such a fluid thing? So hard to define, and complex, and it changes/flows over time? (well, OK, I guess the answer is because PEOPLE are so complex, huh!?)

For example, someone who is bisexual, but varying degrees. I grew up just having crushes on guys, then I thought I only liked girls when I was a young teenager for a year or two, then a few years later I realized I’m bisexual, but I prefer guys (I now have an amazing boyfriend and I don’t want anyone else).

Anyone else have anything like this? Or have you just felt the same continuously?

Whenever life gets you down….. when it gets complicated/confusing…. when you don’t know what to do….. what DO you do? How do you best find a way to cope/deal with it?

When you feel unhappy/bad about yourself, what is a good way to change all that around and go back to your normal self, even if it means ignoring all the shit that made you feel this way in the first place, at least for awhile, instead of moping all the time?

Can you purr, like a cat? My boyfriend can, so I tried but I couldn’t, but then one time I tried, and now I can!

When you’re feeling insecure, how do you feel secure again?

Well it’s been and gone for another year, but did you enjoy it? How did you celebrate? Did you dress up, what as?

Have you/would you ever want to wear your partner’s underwear and/or have them wear yours? Is it a turn on or is it something you’re just not interested in, or have you never even thought about it?

I’m looking for Halloween songs or Halloween sounding songs. Any ideas?