Whenever life gets you down….. when it gets complicated/confusing…. when you don’t know what to do….. what DO you do? How do you best find a way to cope/deal with it?
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When you feel unhappy/bad about yourself, what is a good way to change all that around and go back to your normal self, even if it means ignoring all the shit that made you feel this way in the first place, at least for awhile, instead of moping all the time?
Can you purr, like a cat? My boyfriend can, so I tried but I couldn’t, but then one time I tried, and now I can!
A few questions….
1. Has anyone ever tried to test you? Who? About what?
2. Do you know what the test was “for” or was it not made clear?
3. Has a partner ever tested you?
4. Do you believe that all relationships are a test, and that people need to test you to find stuff out – or is this bullshit and an excuse for the person testing you to justify themselves?
5. Do you test them back? How? Do you try to ignore them?
6. Do you feel if someone tests you, you don’t know where you stand – and that’s not a good feeling!?
7. Do you actually believe anyone needs to test someone? Why can’t people just be upfront and then you know where you stand?
Well it’s been and gone for another year, but did you enjoy it? How did you celebrate? Did you dress up, what as?
Have you/would you ever want to wear your partner’s underwear and/or have them wear yours? Is it a turn on or is it something you’re just not interested in, or have you never even thought about it?
Do you believe in soul mates? Found yours? How would you define it?
I didn’t used to believe in it, or love really….. but now I do, my boyfriend is my “one and only”. This is how love, happiness, relationships are supposed to be!
What are your favourite love songs? Which explain the way you feel (if in love)?
I never would have asked a question like this in the past, my boyfriend is truly special!
Some I like (do you like them too?):
Elbow – Mirrorball
Savage Garden – Truly Madly Deeply
Bryan Adams – Everything I Do
Chickenfoot – Learning To Fall
Jim Croce – Time In A Bottle
Faith Hill – This Kiss
Chicago – You’re The Inspiration
To name just a few….
There are so many great ones when I think of it, but I’ve never experienced the power of love myself before, true love…. I’m just glad I have now! I love my boyfriend!
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