So one thing I’ve noticed over all these years is what it says above - you can’t force a friendship on somebody and if you DO,,, then,,, you’re only going to scare them away,,, i’m not quite sure where the logic lies genetically,, maybe in the past we were fooled by nice people and our ancestors made a genetic memo never to trust needy eager nice people again,,,... or maybe,,, there’s just something in us that wonders what’s wrong with this person?? Why are they so interested in me??? What do they want??? And will i end up hurt if i give???
Maybe the only logic to it is that people just want things to happen naturally,,,.. it always seems to be the most laid back people who make the best company,,...
Dude,,, I dunno,,, but whatever the case may be,,,, i’ll never try to force a friendship on somebody,,,, if things happen naturally then the results will be there,, if not,, get on with your life until something else happens