stop worrying about what other people think

Funny how life throws a curve ball at you sometimes. I am making progress on this goal in some areas of my life, but then I find that I have a ton of work to do in other areas. Oh well, maybe that’s the fun of living, that there are so many aspects of a person and not all areas grow at the same rate.

So, I now have a new area of focus. Wish me luck.

If I had more confidence, I wouldn’t be so afraid, right? Anyway, I am making progress on this goal. I just need to keep pushing my comfort level and realizing that I am not going to die if I do so. So what if people laugh at me, they laugh at me a lot – mostly because I want them to. So why do I stress over something as silly as what clothes I wear or a new haircut?

Silly me.

The Coffee Quiz…

You are a Black Coffee

At your best, you are: low maintenance, friendly, and adaptable

At your worst, you are: cheap and angsty

You drink coffee when: you can get your hands on it

Your caffeine addiction level: high

What Kind of Coffee Are You?
http://www.blogthings.com/whatkindofcoffeeareyouquiz/

It’s general enough that it’s true for me.

Posting my goals and my thoughts is a start. Now if I would actually write exactly what I thought, that would be a bigger step towards not worrying about what people thought of me.

Well, I care what people think in terms of whether or not I am a nice person but why should I care if I look “fat” in my bicycle shorts or if my hair is grey or my glasses make me look old?