Find a good man

I do not know how.

I am a fairly big girl and every man I have been interested in has been very shallow in the end. I wish I had known how shallow they were when I first met them, I would not have even been friends with them if I had known. It has taken me a very long time to identify this pattern.

Prospectless.

No one really catches my eye…the one that did turned out to be someone who if I knew what I knew now before hand I wouldnt have bothered getting to know him at all.
Very deceptive but also very kind….its a draw really.

Self denial of true self versus niceness.

Like Sondhiem said- nice is different than good- so…I got nothing. LOL

I want a man who is willing to give me a tender word when it seems all I give him is sass.
A kind word usually gets me to shut up anyways.