love my wife

There is a fabulous book called “It’s (Mostly) His Fault”. The premise is that most (but not all) of relationship problems stem from the male. Being a male in a relationship (going on 27 years!) I can attest to the truth.

I recommend this book highly. The author uses some rather strong language at times to act as sort of a 2×4 across the head (sometimes with us men, that is what it takes) but his words are right on the mark.

I need to review it often.

I just listened to a new song by Leigh Nash called “This is my idea of heaven” It is absolutely wonderful. I took it and made a slide show with many of the pictures I have of my wife and I. I could watch it over and over.

I do love my wife. But she is worthy of so much more. My selfishness comes through so often. I helps to remind myself that I am the happiest when she is. If I can do or say something that makes her happy, I really am then happy myself. If, however, I fight a assert my wishes, in the end I am not very happy about it.

When this life is done, I want her to be able to look back and not think it was a mistake to hitch her wagon to me.

Look at Leigh’s video http://youtube.com/watch?v=5iUCh30tgDI
See the old couple and what they write and you will see what I mean. That is what I want. She deserves it.