For a long time i allready fell it, the feelings came and formed thaughts and ideas and my heart confirmed them. And now i found two scientists of the human kind that confirm all i felt myself before and it makes me happy. Its in my native language in German and the name is Wölfisch für Hundehalter by Günther Bloch and Elli H.
The understanding of ourselfs by so many of our own kind is wrong. It always felt wrong in a sense and now i know why. The humans told us, that the alpha dominates, that there is a straight structure in the pack, that the alpha always watches and so on. All this is wrong. The pack is a family, there is an alpha yes, but it differes, every situation a specific wolf can take the lead for the good of the family, because he is talented in it. Like the best hunter leads the hunt, and the leading is not like dominating its just that he tells the others what to do. The family bond is the most important thing for our kind. The love for our brothers and sisters. Not dominating or watching, yes sometimes, when there is the heat of the females it can get more violent and dominating, but its not our core structure. The core is the family and the love for the others, to be close to act like one being. The whole understanding that the humans had in the past, and that our kind shares, because they listened to the humans instead to their heart is wrong. And now the humans begin to see it and my heart is jumping, because it feels this time its true. It fits us, it fits my feelings and it fits what i feel for my brothers and sisters. So feel into it, try to get the book in your language or get the newest stuff of wolf scientist. Or just listen to your heart, because its the best guide ever.
In the book there are so many things that explain so much for me. Like the ravens, that follow us, that hunt with us, wolves pupps allready smell the ravens feathers to know that those are their friends. Every pack has its specific raven family and they work together.
And there are exceptions to the family living, there were dominating alphas that treated their pack like shit. A female alpha in Yellowstone did this and the own pack killed her, because she treated them so bad. She was against the family so the family did what they needed to do. Take this as an example, dominance is not what drives our kind.
Oh and if one of us lays to the feet of another of us, its not about dominating, its about love and the need to be close to each other.
So i ask you to look inside of you and be honest if you need something you allready felt that its overcome and doesnt fit you…