get a boyfriend

We kissed drunkly at a party several weeks ago. TBH it was wrong as he’s 8 years older than me – we both felt a bit awakward around each other for around a week as we had to work together. Then we started to flirt, talk and it wasn’t long until we realised we liked each other. I’ve been going out with him for a week – and it’s great. Already I know he’s the best person I’ve ever been out with it’s great we can sit and talk for hours about nonsense. We where worried about the age diffrence at first (17 and 25)and a lot of people I know still are. But I’m mature and smart enough to know he does and we do really like each other. Whatever series of events happend for me to end up with him I’d like to thank my lucky stars for, as this I can tell already is the start of a great relationship. =)

I’m confused as hell – seriously I fancy so many people yet nothing seems to be goin any where. Last night however I went to a friends party – only 1 guy I liked (even if just a little) came there and I ended up with him.
!!!NOT A GOOD IDEA!!! – I’m not feeling regretful but he’s like the boss and 8 years older than me! There will be lots of awkward moments no doubt on Monday when we try to make conversation trying to act perfessional.

Summer camping at a film set has given way for more lads to enter into my life – once agian there are candidits- 3 boys- so far I’d consider. Lucky me – which one to choose:
#1- GUY – Very Attractive camera opperator – Flirts with me so obviously, ignors even the pretty girls which follow him around like lap dogs- I’m playing hard to get – he told me even though he has a girl friend I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever met – nobody has my sense of humour.
#2- MICHAEL – AKA monkey boy PA to the director – cute, shy, smart and a small background role he had to play in a gym scene let me know he had a fit body! He flirts a little and I’ll flirt more tomorrow when I’ll start a seriously good debate with him about the Dark Knight. As he’s the directors PA I don’t want to come across as a gold digger – seriously no matter what postion he was in I’d still find him fit.
#3- WOLF – Gypsy Rock traveller a Spark on set – He’s good looking in a cute way besides the face metal pieceings – however out of them all I ‘m not really attracted to this one. He makes it obvious if a little too and comes across slightly vain.

If GUY dumps he girlfriend and keeps going as he is I’ll get with’s allways him. If not there’s allways MICHAEL – I like him the most he’s the most subtly – dreamy eyes. It’s only a matter of time and there’s more coming next week.

So after realiseing that the lad a had a crush on was gay I started to flirt with this cute rock band lad via myspace. Although I have never met him before he is a friend of a friend so it’s not too weird. So far no luck he’s entertained me by replying back a few times however there’s no real flirting coming back from him that is apart from kiss’s at the end of a message (so far I am getting 2 XX). I fear that I might be too fussy when it comes to picking a lad so here’s list of the ones that are trying to get with me:

1. Garath: good points – confidant bubbly martial arts addict with a nice body – bad points – very vain and is entirely in love with himself. A little bit short.
Looks – 6/10

2. Jahard: good points – middle easten hippy, confidant (as he asked for my number) and tall – bad points – pretty scruffy.
Looks – 4/10

3. Mark: good points – loves films and I would be able to drag him to see all the world cinema and new realeses in the pictures effortlessly also tall – bad points – spotty and pulls very unattractive faces when drunk.
Looks – 4/10

4. Conner: good points – friendly all round happy guy. Gives everyone hugs and is bubbly – bad points – not particually attracted to him really.
Looks – 3/10

5. Benten: good points – this is the one I have only talked to online (as explianed in intro) he loves guitares and moterbikes and is in 2 bands. He seems to be a decent guy – bad points – I don’t know if he really likes me.
Looks – 9/10

...so there’s my list of lads. Feel free to reply back and tell me who you would consider – also what would you say was the most important aspect in pickin someone to go out with. I think I’ll attempt more flirting with this Benten lad…if that fails I’m clueless!

I am 17 so haveing a boyfriend or not isn’t too much of a disaster. Although of chorse I am 17 and really really want one! My last boyfriends where at christmas I went out with one for 2 weeks and the other only for 2 days. What did I learn –
Only go out with people who you actually fancy and not just for the sake of it!

I think I am very fussy and the recent boy I’ve been chaseing turned out to be gay- so that was a waste of time!!! I have no idea what I like about lads – my friends get that can’t get them out of there mind obssession thing going on when they like someone. They say they hate it however atleast there sure then how to know they like someone.

I have a lot of things going on in the summer so I guess there’s pleanty of new people to meet hopefully I’ll see someone I like and know about it before it’s too late. I’d very much like to go out with someone for more than a few months however I know this just isn’t what lads want at all. Cue the sexy new dress. ;D