Tidy my home and keep it tidy

Nowhere to shift anything to get it out of the house. As I can’t drive, I can’t take any of this shit to the landfill or recycling. As I have no money I can’t pay for help. I am totally reliant on husband, who just does not see any problem (or won’t acknowledge it as such).
I need to formulate an action plan I can achieve! First goal is to make a list of the sort of things I can shift out to the garbage bin.
Second thing will be to come up with what I can do about the rest!

Looks like we all expect ourselves to jump right in and clear it all at once. De-pressurise the job – aim to do one at a time: one room, one corner, one kind of “stuff”...