20 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Sunday

1. What did I learn last week?
Once again, one day at a time, and don’t forget about impermanence. Also, to respect lunar eclipses and the culmination of events. And I have great friends, community, support system. And I’m not crazy..well, I am a little, but I didn’t cause it, can’t control, can’t cure it, etc..have choices.

2. What was my greatest accomplishment over the past week?
Taking good care of myself and reaching out.

3. Which moment from last week was the most memorable and why?
Someone I was dating for six-ish weeks broke it off with me and I felt shocked and hurt.

4. What do I regret from last week and what can I do about it/ learn from it?
I regret trying to do too many things at once and not taking good, focused care of me and things around the house that need to get done. I’m not a good multi-tasker..it stresses me out.

5. What’s the #1 thing I need to accomplish this week?
Submit bills and subscribe to TCMtests.

6. What is the most stressful thing in my life right now?
Money? I don’t know. My lack of focus? I feel okay in this moment.

7. How can I go about improving it?
I have been cleaning up things bit by bit. One is make an appointment with that place the financial counselor recommended and continue on logging on mint. The other is improve my eating choices.

8. What have I been avoiding that needs to get done?
Studying and housework

9. What opportunities are still on the table?
Dating, although..I don’t know. A lot of free events.

10. What am I forgetting?
This is a weird question.

11. Is there anyone I’ve been meaning to talk to?
Pat

12. How can I help someone else this coming week?
At work I do. Considering volunteering at a shelter.

13. What treat will I promise myself this week?
I have a coupon for a shiatsu massage.

14. What are my top 3 goals for the next 3 months?
1. Study
2. Keep up with Fly routines
3. Clean up finances

15. Have any of my recent actions moved me closer to my goals?8
House is still a mess, board not taken yet, but finances are improving.

16. *What’s the next step for each goal?
1. Focus on studying this week.
2. Do routine every day…do it before everything else.
3. Keep up with Mint.com

17. What am I looking forward to during the upcoming week?
Having a lot of mornings at home, planning some fun things, and scheduling a massage.

18. What are my fears?
Fear that I’m on the wrong career path because it’s taken so damn long and it hasn’t bothered me that much. Also fear that I’ll keep having the same kind of relationship patterns over and over.

19. What am I most grateful for?
Being alive, like that angel in ‘Wings of Desire’. All of life is glorious even when it hurts. Thank you, Wim Wenders!

20. What can I do to make life more beautiful?
Work around home, set intentions with feng shui, dress up.

1. What did I learn last week?
To take things a day at a time and to let other people be crazy and/or who they are.

2. What was my greatest accomplishment over the past week?
I took pretty good care of my place this week and also spent some time with a new person and enjoyed myself. I thoroughly enjoyed a solitary Valentine’s day surrounded by amazing friends.

3. Which moment from last week was the most memorable and why?
I loved the inspiration I felt on Valentine’s day. I felt very loved that day and feel loved in general lately.

4. What do I regret from last week and what can I do about it/ learn from it?
Stressing about things. Avoiding people. Not being direct and truthful. (I was eventually and it was a positive experience!)

5. What’s the #1 thing I need to accomplish this week?
Contact landlord and resubscribe to TCMtests.

6. What is the most stressful thing in my life right now?
Not earning enough money.

7. How can I go about improving it?
It’s better now. I received my yearly bonus, but I can also be more open about receiving more help and looking at being in focus groups, etc.

8. What have I been avoiding that needs to get done?
Studying

9. What opportunities are still on the table?
There is dating…

10. What am I forgetting?
I forgot.

11. Is there anyone I’ve been meaning to talk to?
I need to return a phone call.

12. How can I help someone else this coming week?
I help a lot of people at work…

13. What treat will I promise myself this week?
I want to get a pedicure on Thursday.

14. What are my top 3 goals for the next 3 months?
1. Study
2. Keep up with Fly routines
3. Clean up finances

15. Have any of my recent actions moved me closer to my goals?
No, not really…

16. What’s the next step for each goal?
1. Focus on studying this week.
2. Do routine every day…do it before everything else.
3. Keep up with Mint.com

17. What am I looking forward to during the upcoming week?
Relaxing more, and the Oscar party. Getting my nails done.

18. What are my fears?
Fear that I may be making the wrong choices. Fear of who I am.

19. What am I most grateful for?
I am very grateful for the life I have and the beautiful people I know. <3

20. What can I do to make life more beautiful?
Do more space clearing. See a friend.

1. What did I learn last week?
To not be surprised by another person’s behavior, and to not feel inferior.

2. What was my greatest accomplishment over the past week?
Adjusted to the idea of working at a new location, and worked a shift there.

3. Which moment from last week was the most memorable and why?
I don’t know.

4. What do I regret from last week and what can I do about it/ learn from it?
Confiding in a friend who tends to become impassive and judgmental.

5. What’s the #1 thing I need to accomplish this week?
Action plan for interview and study for boards.

6. What is the most stressful thing in my life right now?
Interpersonal worries and job change.

7. How can I go about improving it?
Eat better. Yoga every day. Spend time with my more mature friends…and more kindred spirits.

8. What have I been avoiding that needs to get done?
Studying

9. What opportunities are still on the table?
Lots of dating opportunities.

10. What am I forgetting?
I forgot.

11. Is there anyone I’ve been meaning to talk to?
Should I talk to H. about that thing she did that bothered me or let it go?

12. How can I help someone else this coming week?
I help a lot of people at work, and can be more resolved to.

13. What treat will I promise myself this week?
Indian food!

14. What are my top 3 goals for the next 3 months?
1. Study
2. Keep up with Fly routines
3. Clean up finances

15. Have any of my recent actions moved me closer to my goals?
I asked for help around money.

16. What’s the next step for each goal?
1. Focus on studying this week.
2. Do routine every day…do it before everything else.
3. Keep up with Mint.com

17. What am I looking forward to during the upcoming week?
Flamenco recital, job interview.

18. What are my fears?
Freefloating anxiety and paranoia. Fear.

19. What am I most grateful for?
The stability my life has right now and new opportunities.

20. What can I do to make life more beautiful?
Do more space clearing. See a friend.