write more love letters

1. Fidelity – She wants to know that I’m faithful to her not only in body but in mind and soul. She needs me to communicate how she’s the only one.
2. Focus – She wants to be the focus and inspiration in my life, I need to communicate how she makes me feel and describe what I can accomplish because she’s there.
3. Describe – Describe her but in loving attributes, don’t focus on the cosmetic, focus more on the emotional.
4. Desire and Dreams- With the top two, I need to communicate what I want to share with her, maybe as simple as a quite night reading together or a world cruse, set an ambition.
5. Love- is an emotion which has several different meanings, it’s important to use metaphors to describe the love you share.

I’ve been married now for almost 10 years… wow! Over the last months I’ve made an effort to write my wife a card, or a letter at least once every two weeks. I thought she would like it, but she seems to be embarrased. She hides the cards, and doesn’t bring them up in general conversation. I know deep inside she cherishes the letters, but still a little corse on the outside.