rebuild a friendship that needs to be rebuilt.

Not going as well as I had hoped. I haven’t talked to her since we went out to dinner. I need to get moving with this goal. and soon!

She and I went out to dinner and it was great. I thought it might be awkward or uncomfortable but it wasn’t at all! We talked and laughed like we used to. I even gained a spot back on her top friends on myspace (now generally I don’t care about those things, but when you go from # 2 to not being on it at all, it’s a big deal and something is wrong). I think that she and I can do this, esp after dinner.

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Abby and I have been falling away from each other lately. We’re both soo busy with our jobs, her boyfriend, church for me, and it is just soo hard to actually get time to spend with one another. We did have a talk and determined that she and I need to be more open with how we feel with one another because both of us got the idea that the other didn’t want to have the friendship anymore, yet neither of us said anything about it.
That was step one.

So now, the reason this is a goal of mine now is because we got the foundation set, but the whole thing needs help getting off the ground again. I don’t want to lose her friendship because it does mean the world to me, but it is going to take a lot of effort from both of us to make that work, but I know it can happen.

We’re going out to dinner Sunday night, hopefully that is step two and we can keep going on from there.
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