be popular

i have grown alot since last year ive bbeen making more friends and even got asked out. but something is still bothering me, i try to make people like me by doing only what they want, im afraid if i dont then i will be hated. and i want to be abe to deal with people hating me. i love everyone, so i want to try and help all people, but sometimes i am made fun of for hanging with someone who isnt popular or that everyone hates. and so i distance myself from other people cause i dont want to hurt them nor do i want to get hurt.