enjoy life

While work and general day to day keep me moving; I still feel like life is passing me by. I’ve done alot of stuff – travel, adrenalin sports, mind and conciousness building; but I still find myself feeling hollow and not connected. The only relief from this is to get out there and do things. Participation seems an important part, but moved to a new place and am finding it really hard to find people who want to plan and do without me constantly pushing. What do you guys do? Would be really nice to coast for a minute with someone wanting me to be involved in things with them that are fun.