Do 1 Meaningful Action A Day

Spending quality time with my future baby’s mom.

Walking near the sunset.

Opening 43 things after a long time,updating goals.

Making the yellow LIST

Updating the blogs and writing for today :)

I have been working on my goals in some or the other way everyday.since i started.So short of a few actions here and there I think I have done a great job.Anyways this qualifies off the list :)its been a month and two days before my birthday.

date things done things planned to do overall experience

Spend a day,from night on wards to the whole yesterday with my boyfriend and friends.But that’s just easy.

Helped an old friend sort his girlfriend problems and had long conversations,connected with an old acquaintance who is now a friend and close to my heart list,connected with my three good friends,and their single woes,made an old foe a friend,or at least more affiliated to me.Had an connect with an old acquaintance.Made a new friend.Yuuuuup!!Shook the night without running around,and build everyone up on the floor.

Dressed up fabulously for like three occasions.

Wore high heels yesterday,like since forever.Usually I don’t walk in heels cause I am tall,and have a feeling it makes me look like a giant,as tall or taller than the guys.But yesterday,I decided that I have every right to look fabulous.So I wore my best and looked smashing at a karoake night.I am sure nearly two of my aquaintances,and two guys,one on the front table,one behind on the bar had a little envy to my bf :P.Since with especially hiiiiigh heels I look taller than my boyfriend,I asked him if he could,and he wouldnt be akward.He said it made absolutely no difference to him,and that I looked stunning.So, yaayyy…

Walked alot,here and there

I connected with everyone.My friend group,my bf’s best friend,another group of friends who I would never have courage to talk,well I was dancing with them!!I had random karaoke sessions with a popular singer out here,who I know from my band days,and with my friends friend,who was interesting,lol.I danced like crazy with my boyfriend,gave him a lot of attention,danced with everyone,and made the girls who call me a pole look like kids dancing on the floor with me :P.But I have become so peaceful.My motivation is things out of my comfort zone,what am I stopping myself right now from,and where I wanna go.And remembering its not my problem,if people dont like I shake the waters.

I also tried to stay calm and focus on being me,and enjoying myself rather than trying to be the loudest in the bar,which some people were doing.I learnt its easier for me to dance in heels than walk in them :P

From stuff to learn,I took the people’s problem of me is not my problem.I have full right to dress nice,and look fabulous and meet all people I care about,no matter how much that stirs the waters.Yesterday I looked fabulous.I love how from the living on pasta and veggies thing,my cheekbones have become prominent and like a red indian.Yayyy

I watched a football game and cheered for my favorite teams.Thought adding that in insane ideas.

I have become incredibly strong in the peace and motivation thing.I have a constant drive,its like 43 things has become the security of my life.I am not doing lots of things,but I am doing things that matter the most to me.

I have developed a build u up attitude with people.I listen to them,irrespective of whether they are wrong or right.I have stopped giving my opinions off like a high school teacher and let them express out what they feel.I have learned to express how much they matter to me,in surprise hugs,love,appreciation,care (a lot from like 2 weeks ago).I have done all this without feeling vunerable,or insecure or anything.The thing is,I have even started doing that for myself.I stand for myself when someone says anything against me,quietly but firmly.I say what I think,and who I am,and then ask them to meet me.I have started questioning the old shadows of me,saying I am not like that anymore,and proving it.Like the fact I wasnt late.Even though everyone expected me too,and gave me Oh God here she goes.I told them firmly I dont do that,and proved it with a lets see.And I showed them.This is awesome.Standing up for me.

I won with someone against chess and acted completely retarded,but had fun.In the process I made a friend.I am literally as annoying as that blue fish with a short term memory loss in Finding nemo.

I have given up the urge to win every argument.I stand on my view point assertively and then say Ill take your point in consideration.If its about facts I say,I know this is right,however I’ll check what you said.I have awesome friends.

There are still some hooks where I feel bullied a bit.I will resort them.But this is just amazing!!

My boyfriend made me go back home today so that I don’t miss the bank.I won’t.

Today I will look at what they have on shops.And window shop.And make a note of anything I find interesting.And after fixing my wardrobe,I’ll go and buy them tomorrow.

I update all the blogs below almost everyday till now.

Keep telling my boyfriend how much I care

Have to resolve the dorm problem by tomorrow.

Have to resolve the meet heads of department thing tomorrow

Keep working on the rest of the list

yup

you know this goal is actually easier to finish off.It incorporates all my existing goals.30 days of productivity and good will and I will check this off my list.

I wanna make sure I don’t cheat my way out of it.

Well I spend time with my boyfriend,and made him feel special.You know stuff like I just wanna hug you for a minute thing.Its just amazing how sweetly he responds to something so corny like that.

Finally caught up with my friends after a long time.Felt good.I realized I am not that bad in Need for Speed after I beat all the girls playing and gave competition to the best guy out of all of us.Okayyy,not competition,but the fact I could still somewhat remain in catch was goddamn exhilarating.I know its just a racing game,but guys here talk about games like its a cryptic language from star wars,you have sooo not an idea what you are doing.jackasses.

So I guess the update here is I tried to be deliberately nice.And met my boyfriend glammed up,but when I am doing good stuff for my baby,he just makes it wayyy easier.

Spend time reflecting into my career choices
took personality quizzes and developed lot of awareness on the issue
woke up on time
send a sweet message back to my boyfriend

By 4th may I manage to have atleast 30 days of meaningful actions.

Finished a goal off the list.
Spend a day with my boyfriend making him feel special
Interacted with mom and dad,and let them know I care
Cleaned my room
Worked on the minimalist goal,and the remove stuff you dont find beautiful
happy :)

I updated all the 5 blogs I decided to make :)

The pain blog to write my frusturation
The kaizen to just type in stuff I did,like a productivity graph
The humor blog for all things I am greatful for,ts gonna be my wish diary :)
The mistakes blog,checking what I did wrong,and catch myself in a pattern
Blog for what I gotta learn from people,always worth it :)
And insane ideas,wrote down a couple :D