I just can’t seem to do this… I mean, if I see some hot chick DOING SOMETHING (i.e. checking email/lecture notes on the computer at the library), I can’t seem to go over to her, interrupt her, and “pick her up” (so to speak).
Do I lack the sufficient confidence? I know I’m not perfect, but I WOULD say that I’m a fairly confident guy…
Maybe it has nothing to do with confidence, more so with sincerity? I probably (key word, “probably”) would appreciate not being bothered when tackling an every-day, semi-important task.. Then again, how important is that task? Surely, if it ranked lower for importance on the spectra, the reaction twoards the interrupter would be less negative?
Question: Do they (girls) like being interrupted? It obviously gets her attention, and does create a sort of “1-on-1” ideal environment. Hmmmm..
I’m probably just thinking that… you know, I wouldn’t want to be interrupted while doing a seemingly important task…
But I must realize that… another guy/guy would be different (all humans being different and all); oppositely ,he/she may be delighted that another individual is interested enough to put effort into the task of grabbing his/her attention. Wow.. I’m so weird; this stuff sounds flattering—who doesn’t like flattery?
Anyway.. Thinking about this, I will TRY not to hesitate about interrupting a girl, should I feel some physical attraction. And who gives a f**k if I’m “shot down”; there are hundreds of millions of attractive girls out there.
This stuff seems pretty tough.. That, or I’m just blowing things out of proportion, making things unnecessarily difficult for myself. Either way, I like how it’s challenging on the intellectual level.
