We met and I liked him and felt a connection almost immediately but no physical attraction really. It took a couple months for me to see him in a different light. With months of time slowly unfolding whatever it was that was pulling me to him I caved with much deliberation I initiated contact outside of work. Worked and we quickly became involved in a quick bonding experience and both were sharing that we thought we could be each others soul mates.
For 3 short months it was heaven. And well you all know how it goes but its so hard to understand because we were happy and normal until 2 things happened and then bam he was nearly silent not that affectionate. I knew because I’m just intuitive I guess but then anger grew as he wouldn’t tell me what was wrong. Finally I found out and the answers he gave me I calmed but never did understand, probably never will. But I did confront him as we text daily STILL so you can imagine how hard that is, I’m sure. I’ve said and done things I should have really but I’m just trying to move on or at least appear to have and see. Ideally I’d rather not get over him but even if some miracle occurred it will not be the same and I need to get over what has happened regardless or it would only cause more issues.
Any help would be great. It’s been a month and I still cry at an instant about little things. Its much better but still there.
